Self Pleasuring Clubs Tips for the Newbie

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Self-pleasuring clubs can be a great place for a man to experience self-pleasuring on a new and different level. But a newbie to the experience may need a little guidance in advance.

Most of the time, self-pleasuring is an activity a guy engages in alone. Sure, guys may occasionally (especially as teen-agers) find themselves in a situation where they self-stimulate with a friend or they may be in a relationship in which sensual play includes shared self-pleasuring. But more often than not a man self-gratifies solo, as a way to enjoy himself and maintain male organ care by keeping the manhood exercised.

But some men do partake in self-pleasuring clubs. These are group self-pleasuring sessions with other people at a designated location and time. A newbie who wishes to explore this option may find the tips in this article helpful.

Tips

A self-pleasuring club can be a rewarding way for a man to "open up" his self-gratifying experience in a new manner. As a newbie, however, there are a few things about self-pleasuring clubs that a man should be aware of.

The mix. Some self-pleasuring clubs (typically called jack clubs) are male only. Some (often called jack and jill clubs) are open to both genders. It's a wise idea to check ahead of time as to what kind of club one may attend. Some men are happy to fondle themselves in any kind of a group setting. Others may have strong feelings about whether they self-stimulate in front of men or women. Do be advised, however, that even in jack and jill clubs, there tend to be more men involved than women.

The choice doesn't necessarily depend on sensual orientation. Many straight men prefer to self-gratify only with other men in a club setting. They may be looking for a male bonding experience, or may feel awkward openly self-stimulating in front of a woman.

Stick to self-pleasuring. Many men enter a self-pleasuring club thinking that solo play will be merely the first step to a more involved sensual experience. In most clubs, this is not the case: oral sensual activity, backdoor fun and male-female penetration are usually forbidden. Whether self-pleasuring means fondling alone whether it can expand to include touching another person varies from club to club; finding out the rule at a particular club is advised before getting started.

Keep it impersonal. Many club participants prefer to remain anonymous. If a newbie sees someone he knows at the club, he can nod a welcome or give a brief "hi" and see if his acquaintance responds. If he doesn't, don't push it; the acquaintance may have a preference for privacy which should be respected.

No pictures. It's a "selfie age," but refrain from snapping at a club. Even if the picture is intended to be a selfie, a guy may accidentally include someone else in the picture or may make others worry that they are being filmed without their consent.

No clothes. Again, rules vary from club to club, but most ask that their members be essentially bare. (There are often exceptions for footwear.)

Keep it clean. Clearly, a room full of self-stimulating men is going to generate a lot of male seed. Each man should be responsible for cleaning up after himself. Clubs tend to provide towels or tissues, but some men prefer to bring along their own.

A newbie may initially feel a little self-conscious at a self-pleasuring club, which is all the more reason to use a top drawer male organ health crme (health professionals recommend Man1 Man Oil, which is clinically proven mild and safe for skin) to keep the member looking proud and healthy. Many common skin issues can be alleviated with a crme that includes both moisturizing agents and a potent antioxidant. A high-end emollient (like Shea butter) and a natural hydrator (like vitamin E) combine to fight brittle, dry manhood skin. And an antioxidant like alpha lipoic acid is excellent at fighting oxidative stress that causes male organ skin to appear wrinkled and aged. With a good looking manhood, a newbie is more empowered to walk into a self-pleasuring club looking his best.